Buxtehude is my hometown and one of my favourite places to photograph weddings. Between its historic lanes, half-timbered houses and the Fleth canal, this small Hanseatic town has more character than you might expect at first glance.
Whether you're having a civil wedding at the historic town hall, a ceremony at Ovelgönner Wassermühle or a big celebration with family and friends, I photograph your day with an eye for real moments and a modern aesthetic.
And sometimes the best photographs happen exactly where nobody expected them.
In Buxtehude, everyone knows the tale of the hare and the hedgehog. And there's certainly no shortage of fairytale material here. But real life tells the best stories.
A few nerves, an unexpected shower, laughter at the wrong moment. A wedding doesn't have to follow a fairytale script to be unforgettable.
I like weddings where everything doesn't have to be perfect. Just real, personal and full of little surprises.
The historic town hall in the heart of Buxtehude's old town is one of my favourite places for civil weddings. With its high ceilings, historic murals and distinctive atmosphere, the council chamber gives even a small ceremony a grand setting.
Outside, family and friends are waiting. There are congratulations, laughter and raised glasses. And suddenly this place becomes a little part of your own story, too.
The lovely thing is that we don't have to go far for your first portraits together. The old town is right outside the door.
Narrow lanes, brickwork, timber frames and unexpected glimpses of the town. Buxtehude's old town is full of interesting corners that make wonderful settings for wedding photographs.
I like simply taking a short walk through the streets with a couple. Without a long list of poses or having to stop at every corner.
Sometimes a lovely portrait happens in front of an old house. Sometimes in the middle of the street, as we walk. And sometimes an apparently unremarkable background is exactly the right one.
The historic watermill in Ovelgönne is one of the most unusual ceremony venues around Buxtehude. A thatched roof, old timber, the mill wheel and a small pond right beside it: a civil wedding here feels very different from one in a traditional ceremony room.
The mill is cosy, intimate and full of characterful details.
After the ceremony, we can explore the surroundings for a few relaxed portraits. And when your guests are already waiting for you, that's often where some of the loveliest photographs happen.
The Fleth is as much a part of Buxtehude as its old gabled houses and St. Petri church. Where merchant ships once docked, couples now stroll through town.
The water, bridges, brick façades and reflections make this part of the old town especially interesting to photograph.
Yet there's no need to stage anything elaborate here. A short walk after the ceremony is often all it takes to make photographs that feel like you.
St. Petri church has shaped the skyline of Buxtehude's old town for centuries. High vaults, old masonry and an atmosphere quite different from a civil ceremony.
I like the quiet just before the entrance. The waiting, the music, the glances between the couple and their guests.
At church weddings, I photograph attentively and discreetly. Because sometimes a small smile or a hand on a shoulder says more than the big moment at the altar.
Not every wedding needs a hundred guests and a party that lasts until morning.
Sometimes it's just your closest people, a short ceremony at the town hall and lunch together afterwards. Perhaps a walk through Buxtehude and a few portraits of the two of you.
Small weddings leave room for personal moments. And those are every bit as interesting to photograph as a big celebration.
Whether I'm there for two hours or longer, what matters isn't the size of your wedding, but what's important to you that day.
There are all sorts of ways to celebrate a wedding in Buxtehude.
From Ovelgönner Hof and Hotel Navigare to modern event spaces such as HanseLoft. Some couples want a traditional wedding celebration with lots of guests; others prefer a smaller gathering in the old town or a relaxed party in their own garden.
I find it fascinating how different weddings can be, even within the same town.
The venue sets the scene. The people make the story.
Buxtehude sits between Hamburg and Altes Land. City life on one side; orchards, old farms and open landscapes on the other.
That mix makes the area wonderfully versatile for weddings.
A ceremony at Buxtehude town hall, portraits in the old town afterwards and a celebration out in the countryside later? Why not.
The distances are short and the possibilities are many. And sometimes very different places fit beautifully into a single wedding day.
I don't photograph from a fixed shot list. Of course, the important moments are part of it. But I'm just as interested in unusual perspectives, movement, light and the moments that happen along the way.
Sometimes a photograph is quiet, almost like a magazine portrait. Sometimes it's spontaneous, a little blurred or full of movement.
I want your wedding photographs to do more than document what happened. I want them to show how the day felt.
I live and work in Buxtehude. To me, it isn't just another wedding destination on the map. It's a place I know through everyday life.
I know which corners of the old town are interesting beyond the familiar photo spots, how much the light around the Fleth can change, and how quickly you can go from the historic town hall to somewhere entirely different.
That knowledge helps me photograph your wedding day without making things complicated.
And yet every wedding lets me see Buxtehude a little differently. Because even familiar places keep giving rise to entirely new stories.
A moment ago, you were sitting in the ceremony room. Now you're outside the town hall and suddenly everyone is congratulating you at once. Someone puts a bouquet in your hand, someone else is determined to take a photo, and somewhere a bottle of sparkling wine is already being opened.
I especially love those first few minutes after the ceremony.
Because things no longer have to go to plan. Because the nerves are slowly easing. And because, between the hugs, congratulations and guests all talking at once, photographs often happen that become favourites later.
I've known Buxtehude for a long time. And yet I discover something new at every wedding. An interesting reflection in a shop window, unusual light in a familiar lane, or a moment that will only ever happen once in that particular spot.
Somewhere that's part of my everyday life becomes a deeply personal memory for a couple on their wedding day.
Perhaps that's exactly why I love photographing here. Because I know the town, but see every wedding with fresh eyes.
Not every wedding takes place at a registry office or in a church. Some couples choose a personal, non-religious ceremony outdoors, in a garden or somewhere that means something to them.
There are plenty of possibilities around Buxtehude. From a small garden gathering to a big celebration on a farm.
I love how different these ceremonies can be. Sometimes there's plenty of laughter; sometimes everything goes quiet. And sometimes both happen within a few seconds.
After the ceremony, the shoes gradually get less comfortable, the conversations louder and everyone a little more relaxed. The morning's nerves have gone, and a carefully planned wedding day slowly turns into a proper party.
Whether at Hotel Navigare, Ovelgönner Hof or somewhere private with family and friends, every celebration has its own rhythm.
I love staying to photograph long after the official part of the day is over. When nobody on the dance floor is thinking about the camera any more, and the pictures show what the evening was really like.